Malcolm is two months old today! I have so many thoughts about these months rolling around in my head - mostly about how it is so much harder than I thought it would be, but in different ways than I expected - but I'm not sure how to express them. I am discovering that I seem to have to learn the same lessons over and over again in life, for every new challenge I take on. For instance, "experts" are only so useful in any given situation, and all advice must be considered in light of your own personal situation. Also - I don't have to solve every problem, reinvent the wheel, on my own. And I have learned that I have some really, really good friends.